Sharing narratives is a powerful act. It can open hearts and begin to change minds. All around the world, our bereaved Palestinian and Israeli members speak at events called “Dialogue Meetings.”

You can host a Dialogue Meeting in your community, either virtually or in person, and hear our members’ stories of loss, their extraordinary choice for reconciliation rather than revenge and their determination to break the cycle of violence.

What We Provide

The Dialogue Meeting program is approximately one hour, always with one bereaved Palestinian and one bereaved Israeli member speaking together, and answering questions. They share their stories of loss and their unique choice of reconciliation rather than revenge. Their stories generate empathy, humanization, and understanding for the “other” side. Our members focus on the human side of the conflict and stay away from political issues.

        • We line up the speakers, handle the registration, provide bios and pictures of speakers, and language for you to use to promote the event. We can even design the promotional material.
        • After the event, we will send out a letter to attendees, thanking them for their interest and support.

What We Request

For virtual Dialogue Meetings, we request:

      • An honorarium of a minimum of $1,500 to support the peacebuilding work of the Parents Circle
      • If possible, we ask that you try to co-host the Dialogue Meeting with other organizations to widen our reach.
      • Taking into consideration the time difference between the US and Israel-Palestine, please schedule the Dialogue Meeting Sunday – Thursday in the morning or early afternoon.
More questions? Fill out this form or email us at [email protected]

If you would like to schedule a visit with your community for an in-person Dialogue Meeting during an upcoming trip, please get in touch with us via [email protected] or on our contact form. Please note for in person Dialogue Meetings we request:

        • $2,500 honorarium
        • Domestic airfare to the city where the presentation will be held
        • Local hotel accommodations for the two speakers*
*Domestic airfare and/or accommodations are waived if previously arranged for by another hosting organization.

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Videos of Parents Circle Speakers

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Videos of Parents Circle Speakers

Where we've spoken

Highlights of places and events where our Israeli and Palestinian speakers have presented their stories. Note: this list is not comprehensive.

Georgetown University
Tufts University
American University
Columbia University
Yale University
Wesleyan University
Carleton College
University of Cincinnati
SUNY New Paltz
Michigan State University
Syracuse University
Northern Illinois University
University of Michigan
Case Western Reserve University
William Peace University
Loyola University
Drew University

Women in the World
SXSW
Al Filipov Peace and Justice Forum
Town & Country Philanthropy Summit
J Street National Conference
Telos Conference
Partners for Progressive Israel Symposium
Restorative Justice Conference
St. Bartholomew’s Church Forum
Interfaith Youth Core
Reconstructionist Rabbinical Association
Federal Bureau of Investigation

Theater J
Center for Civil and Human Rights
Temple Emanu-El Streicker Center
United Nations
World Bank
US Congress
USAID
482 Forward
Riverside Church
Central Synagogue
Maplewood & South Orange NJ
Temple Beth Torah
Congregation Etz Chayim
JCC Manhattan
B’nai Jeshurun NYC
Central Synagogue
Congregation Shaare Emeth
Parkview Community Church
Temple Beth Sholom
Congregation Rodeph Sholom
Church of Transfiguration
Agudas Achim
Congregation Hakafa

Kholoud Houshiya

I am Kholoud Houshiya and I live in the village of Al Yamun near Jenin. Originally my family is from Haifa. I wasn’t able to experience childhood due to the occupation, which forcibly displaced my family to Jenin under oppression and humiliation.

Later, I married and I gave birth to my first child, whom I named Mohammed. I raised him with all my love and effort.

Mohammed was a young man who loved life dearly, and he loved me even more. He was both my son and my friend, thanks to our close bond.

Mohamad was 23 years old. He worked in Israel and helped his father.

On January 2, 2024 Mohamed took a picture of the Israeli army tearing down my neighbor’s house. The army thought otherwise and they shot him. Just because he was Palestinian.

I always dreamed of seeing my son as a groom, just like any mother. But now, I am left with him buried in my garden. I had hoped to see him, his wife, and his children in my house, but now, every day, I look at his grave from the window in my room.

My message to the world is this: Enough. Enough killing, enough injustice, enough destruction, enough oppression. Enough violence on both sides.

It is not easy for a mother to recount the story of her son’s death—the pain is indescribable. I cannot bear the loss of another child. This is why we must raise the voice of the mothers for a better future for all children and young generations – Palestinians and Israelis.

Maayan Kfir Shani

Hala
al-Bukhari

I am Hala Al-Bukhari, living in Jerusalem.

My daughter, my sister and her large family, children and grandchildren live in Gaza. Despite the distance, before the war, I used to communicate with them daily, checking on their health via video call.

On the morning of October 7th, my son told me to watch TV to see what was happening in southern Israel. From that day, fear has overwhelmed my heart.

Then came the morning of October 18th, bringing the harsh news: My sister’s house was bombed, and she, her husband, her children, and grandchildren were in the house—33 innocent lives lost in this horrific massacre. Since then, my fear for my daughter has grown. I have pleaded with human rights organizations, seeking any means to get her out of the hell of war and the horror of the massacres. Eventually we succeeded to get my daughter out of Gaza.

With every word I write, I struggle to express the extent of my pain. Our hearts bleed with grief for those we have lost and continue to lose. Our sorrow is profound, and our souls yearn for the peace we all dream of.

Let us all live in peace and build a better future for our children. War brings only destruction and ruin to everyone involved, whether Palestinian or Israeli. It is always the innocent people who suffer the most.

Liat Atzili

I am Liat Atzili from Kibbutz Nir Oz.

My partner, Aviv and I built a life and a family in Nir Oz. We were an inseparable part of this little community, which fulfilled our aspirations and needs. Mine as an educator, and Aviv’s as a farmer and an artist.

On October 7th, our kibbutz was attacked, conquered, and destroyed by Hamas. A quarter of the residents were either killed or kidnapped, including me. The time I spent as a hostage in Gaza was of complete despair, unending fear for my friends and family, and long days. I was nervous that I wouldn’t survive.

After 54 days in captivity, I was returned home. The following day, my family and I were told that Aviv was killed on October 7th. Aviv had hundreds of friends, he traveled and created, and made the most of every opportunity; he truly loved life.In his final year, Aviv fulfilled many dreams, the greatest being to share his art publicly. While managing the kibbutz’s agricultural garage, he painted on tractor parts and scrap metal, blending his love for metals and the Negev fields into his creations. Our children looked up to him and I feel like I had the greatest privilege to share my life with him.

I always believed that war is not our destiny, and that any conflict, including ours, can be solved. This war has proven to me beyond a doubt that we cannot continue fighting, that we have no right to impose the continued suffering of war on future generations on either side. I am ready today, more than ever, to do everything in my power so that our children can live here in peace and security.

Mazen Abu Zir

I am Mazen from Bethlehem. Many of my family members live in Beit Lahiya, Gaza. They lived in a beautiful house and went on about their lives, despite the siege.

It all stopped on October 10, 2024, when, my uncle, his three sons, and his son-in-law were outside near the house. Israeli aircraft targeted them with bombardment and gunfire. My aunt managed to bring their bodies into the house. With trembling hands, she was forced to gather what remained of them, unable for over a week to lay her husband and three sons to rest.
I cannot believe that so many of my family are dead, and that I cannot go there to help them and cry with them.

The depth of pain in Gaza is beyond description and cannot be fathomed by the human mind. How much longer will this hatred on both sides continue? How much longer will we endure this nightmare? All the Palestinian people desire is a dignified life free from occupation—a fundamental right, just like that of any other people in the world.

The suffering will not cease until we collectively seek pathways to peace and understanding. Revenge will not forge a shared future; we must strive to find common ground and solidarity. Let us unite for a brighter future for the generations to come, and let us raise our voices for peace, so that together we may end this cycle of violence and finally live in safety and harmony.

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