Young Israelis and Palestinians standing in a circle among olive trees, each holding a shared rope

A campaign for the next generation

We Are The Day After

Young people in Palestine and Israel have no memory of a time without violence. By working for and with youth, we are focused on improving the lives of young people so that they may have a future of peace, freedom, and safety.

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The youth are our hope and our inspiration

Every program has its own stories — and its own way to give.

Peace Summer Camp

In their own words

  • Alanoud Awad

    Bereaved Palestinian Sister; PCFF Summer Camper

    What gives me hope is our shared belief that tomorrow can be better, that the things I wish for are still possible.

    My name is Alanoud, I am a 16 years old Palestinian from Beit Ummar. My brother, Mahmoud, was killed in 2008 by an Israeli soldier in our village. Mahmoud was 17, and he was filming the military demolishing the home of one of our neighbors. Although I never got the…

    Alanoud Awad

    Peace Summer Camp

    Alanoud Awad

    Bereaved Palestinian Sister; PCFF Summer Camper

    My name is Alanoud, I am a 16 years old Palestinian from Beit Ummar. My brother, Mahmoud, was killed in 2008 by an Israeli soldier in our village. Mahmoud was 17, and he was filming the military demolishing the home of one of our neighbors.

    Although I never got the chance to know him, he holds a special place in my heart, a feeling that has grown stronger through the stories my family has shared about him.

    I decided to join the Parents Circle because I wanted to convey the true picture of who we are to ‘the other side’, beyond the stereotypes that some people may hold about Palestinians. I also wanted to share my brother’s story with as many people as possible and raise awareness about what is happening in the West Bank.

    At the PCFF summer camp, I learned the importance of listening to others, even if their opinions differ from mine. I also learned that not every Israeli is a soldier. It is important to get to know people through their experiences, and to give ourselves the opportunity to understand the other side without preconceived judgments. I also made many new friends at camp.

    What gives me hope is our shared belief that tomorrow can be better, that the things I wish for are still possible, no matter how difficult the circumstances may seem.

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  • Yishai Elhanan

    Bereaved Israeli Nephew; PCFF Summer Camper

    We have each other to carry us forward, that’s the point.

    My name is Yishai, I am a 16 year old Israeli from Haifa. My aunt, Smadar, was killed in 1997 by a Palestinian suicide bomber in Jerusalem. She was 14 years old, and was waiting for the bus while listening to music on her walkman. I never had the chance…

    Yishai Elhanan

    Peace Summer Camp

    Yishai Elhanan

    Bereaved Israeli Nephew; PCFF Summer Camper

    My name is Yishai, I am a 16 year old Israeli from Haifa. My aunt, Smadar, was killed in 1997 by a Palestinian suicide bomber in Jerusalem. She was 14 years old, and was waiting for the bus while listening to music on her walkman. I never had the chance to meet her, since she was killed before I was born.

    My dad convinced me to try out the PCFF summer camp this year, and taking his advice was one of the best decisions I’ve made.

    This summer I made many new friends at camp, both Israelis and Palestinians. It gives me hope to know that we not only can, but actively are getting along with each other.

    But that is not the point of the camp or the Parents Circle. We are together in this land of madness, and Israelis and Palestinians alike bear the burden of hate. Our families have paid the highest price. We have each other to carry us forward, that’s the point.

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About the program

50 bereaved Israeli and Palestinian teenagers, one life changing summer.

A safe space to have the hard conversations, to just be kids, and to discover how much they have in common with their peers on ‘the other side’.

Young Ambassadors for Peace

In their own words

  • Wuroud Awad

    Bereaved Palestinian Sister; Young Ambassador for Peace

    Every person has a story, pain, and hope, and we must see the human being first.

    My name is Wuroud, from the village of Beit Ummar in Palestine. I lost my older brother, Ibrahim, in 2015. His loss was a painful experience that left a profound impact on my life. I joined the Young Ambassadors for Peace, as an important opportunity to meet people from the…

    Wuroud Awad

    Young Ambassadors for Peace

    Wuroud Awad

    Bereaved Palestinian Sister; Young Ambassador for Peace

    My name is Wuroud, from the village of Beit Ummar in Palestine. I lost my older brother, Ibrahim, in 2015. His loss was a painful experience that left a profound impact on my life.

    I joined the Young Ambassadors for Peace, as an important opportunity to meet people from the other side, listening to their stories and personal experiences. This program helped me realize that every person has a story, pain, and hope, and that we must see the human being first, beyond prejudice and the barriers of race, religion, nationality, or identity.

    The human dimension lies at the heart of the Parents Circle. It provides families who have lost loved ones with a safe space to express their grief and transforms painful experiences into opportunities for connection, empathy, and understanding.

    Peace does not mean forgetting what happened to my family or ignoring the pain. Rather, it means having the courage to confront the past and work together to ensure that future generations do not experience the same tragedy. Peace is a shared responsibility that begins with each individual — with the ability to respect others and accept their differences, and with the determination to choose dialogue over violence.

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  • Maayan Mula

    Israeli YAP Participant

    Military barriers separate us but the love still exists.

    My name is Maayan, and I live in Tel Aviv. On October 7, 2023 I lost several childhood friends in one day. They were people I grew up with and connected with, people of light, joy, and dance. At first I was filled with anger and pain, then slowly I…

    Maayan Mula

    Young Ambassadors for Peace

    Maayan Mula

    Israeli YAP Participant

    My name is Maayan, and I live in Tel Aviv. On October 7, 2023 I lost several childhood friends in one day. They were people I grew up with and connected with, people of light, joy, and dance.

    At first I was filled with anger and pain, then slowly I began to investigate and try to understand what was happening and why. It dawned on me that we are in a never-ending cycle of bloodshed, an endless cycle of suffering and loss, and that we must look it in the eye and understand what our responsibility is in this situation.

    That’s when I chose to join the Young Ambassadors for Peace program. Getting to know such amazing people who also suffered loss, but chose to channel their energy into peace, was an empowering experience. It gave me hope to look at ‘the other side’ in the eyes and feel love, to feel compassion and acceptance, to call them my friends and miss them, because military barriers separate us but the love still exists.

    Despite the initial fear of ‘the other’, the language barrier, and physical borders between us – we are so similar. I am grateful that the Parents Circle gave me this opportunity to see and be seen.

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About the program

A yearlong program that trains young Palestinians and Israelis, 18-26 years old, to become peace leaders in their communities.

Together they travel, share their personal stories, learn public speaking, and design joint projects.

Dialogue Meetings in Schools

In their own words

  • Abie Troen

    Bereaved Israeli Brother; PCFF Member

    Hope comes from listening and piecing things together, one step at a time.

    My name is Abie. My sister and brother-in-law, Deborah and Shlomi, were killed in their home on October 7, 2023. In their final act, they saved their 3 children by hiding them under the bed and under their body. At such a young age, my nieces and nephew have to…

    Abie Troen

    Dialogue Meetings in Schools

    Abie Troen

    Bereaved Israeli Brother; PCFF Member

    My name is Abie. My sister and brother-in-law, Deborah and Shlomi, were killed in their home on October 7, 2023. In their final act, they saved their 3 children by hiding them under the bed and under their body. At such a young age, my nieces and nephew have to face life without their parents and home after such an act of violence.

    I joined the Parents Circle because I believe it is essential to speak out about the cost of violence and to actively seek ways to end it. There is no one simple solution, but meeting and working with bereaved Palestinian families, and standing against the forces that try to dehumanize us all felt like the most obvious thing to do.

    This isn’t a radical act. To me, it comes from a very deep belief in people and is my way of trying to help create a better world.

    Through the Parents Circle, I’ve met people on the Palestinian side who are doing the same: living through unimaginably hard conditions and still choosing to meet with me as an Israeli.

    I take part in PCFF dialogue meetings, sharing my story with high school students. Grief doesn’t fit into a neat box, and neither does fear rooted in lived experience and real violence. Fear can be transformed into hatred, but it can also be channeled into love and a fight for life. It isn’t always easy, but we’re trying.

    Over time, I’ve learned to listen better. It’s less about arriving with certainty and answers. Hope comes from listening and piecing things together, one step at a time.

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  • Arab Aramin

    Bereaved Palestinian Brother; PCFF Member

    When we meet face to face about our experiences, losses, and fears, preconceived images begin to crack.

    My name is Arab. My younger sister, Abir, was killed by an Israeli sniper in front of her school when she was 10 years old. I carry a personal experience of loss, one that cannot be separated from my Palestinian identity. Yet it also strengthens my belief in human connection…

    Arab Aramin

    Dialogue Meetings in Schools

    Arab Aramin

    Bereaved Palestinian Brother; PCFF Member

    My name is Arab. My younger sister, Abir, was killed by an Israeli sniper in front of her school when she was 10 years old. I carry a personal experience of loss, one that cannot be separated from my Palestinian identity. Yet it also strengthens my belief in human connection and in the conviction that, no matter how deep the pain, it should not mark the end of the road.

    Since October 7, I have taken part in Dialogue Meetings bringing Palestinians and Israelis together. None of these meetings began easily. Feelings of pain, anger, fear, and mistrust were present, and at some meetings, some participants chose to leave. Nevertheless, we ended each meeting with a sense of hope and a belief that dialogue remains possible and necessary.

    Today, I am unfortunately the only Palestinian able to participate in Dialogue Meetings in Israel, thanks to my Jerusalem ID, which allows me greater freedom of movement. This reality places a great responsibility on my shoulders and strengthens my determination to continue what we have started and work toward a better future.

    My experience in these meetings has taught me that there are still people holding onto humanity, willing to listen, trying to understand. Many people know little about us Palestinians beyond what they hear or the narratives they are exposed to about us. But when we meet face to face about our experiences, losses, and fears, preconceived images begin to crack, creating space for people to see one another as they truly are, beyond prejudice.

    We must continue what we have begun and preserve the spaces that allow us to meet, listen, and engage in dialogue, even when doing so seems impossible. Hope does not mean ignoring reality or minimizing the extent of suffering. Rather, it means refusing to let pain deprive us of our ability to imagine a better future and work toward it.

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About the program

Parents Circle members share their stories of loss and reconciliation in Israeli high schools.

For many students, it is their first and only opportunity to meet a Palestinian before they join the army.

Back to School Solidarity Campaign

In their own words

  • Yakoub Alrabi

    Bereaved Palestinian Husband; PCFF Community Manager

    I love seeing the faces of the children light up when they see us, Israelis and Palestinians coming together to bring them school supplies.

    My name is Yakoub. My wife, Aisha, was killed eight years ago by a Jewish settler who threw a rock at our car. Today I serve as the Palestinian Community Manager at the PCFF, where I am responsible for organizing and managing solidarity programs and community activities. I am guided…

    Yakoub Alrabi

    Back to School Solidarity Campaign

    Yakoub Alrabi

    Bereaved Palestinian Husband; PCFF Community Manager

    My name is Yakoub. My wife, Aisha, was killed eight years ago by a Jewish settler who threw a rock at our car.

    Today I serve as the Palestinian Community Manager at the PCFF, where I am responsible for organizing and managing solidarity programs and community activities. I am guided by our belief in the importance of humanitarian work and building community through solidarity.

    For me, the most meaningful solidarity activity is the Back to School Campaign. We distribute school bags to children in Palestinian villages and Bedouin communities. We are able to support students, assist families, and provide them with essential school supplies. I love seeing the faces of the children light up when they see us, Israelis and Palestinians coming together to bring them school supplies.

    We believe that community engagement and humanitarian work are fundamental in supporting Palestinians under occupation. I am so grateful to be a part of inspiring hope among children and future generations.

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  • Avi Orpaz

    Bereaved Israeli Son; PCFF Community Manager

    I realized that revenge would never bring back the chance to hug my mother, and that peace was the path to finding comfort.

    My name is Avi. My mother, Tocheved, was killed in 2008 in an attack on the Jewish Chabad in India. I joined the Parents Circle because I realized that revenge would never bring back the chance to hug my mother, and that peace was the path to finding comfort. As…

    Avi Orpaz

    Back to School Solidarity Campaign

    Avi Orpaz

    Bereaved Israeli Son; PCFF Community Manager

    My name is Avi. My mother, Tocheved, was killed in 2008 in an attack on the Jewish Chabad in India.

    I joined the Parents Circle because I realized that revenge would never bring back the chance to hug my mother, and that peace was the path to finding comfort.

    As the Israeli Community Manager, I take part in PCFF’s solidarity activities, including the Back to School campaign, olive harvests, and visits to Palestinian communities in Masafer Yatta and the Jordan Valley. During these visits, we work alongside our Palestinian members, support local communities, and hold dialogue meetings that foster understanding, solidarity, and connection.

    Through dialogue, listening, and shared action, we can build closeness and trust beyond politics and the preconceived beliefs deeply rooted in our societies. We are teaching children that a different way is possible.

    Meeting Palestinians showed me that living together is not a distant dream. We are already living the day after, here and now.

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About the program

Palestinian families continue to face violence, financial stress, and destruction under the occupation.

Bereaved Palestinians and Israelis work together to deliver school supplies to thousands of children across the West Bank.

Join us in creating the Day After

The Day After has safety, dignity, and freedom for all. It is a day of partnership, reconciliation, and hope. Join us in creating the Day After.

Meeting Palestinians showed me that living together is not a distant dream. We are already living the day after, here and now.

Avi Orpaz Bereaved Israeli Son; PCFF Community Manager

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